New user, having trouble with task creation notification emails to project members

Is it anything like this issue? Creating tasks via email gives error "We couldn't process your email." for most users - #7 by Stephanie_Oberg If so, there is a fix and I do have it working, but it was quite involved…had to actually have a software engineer at my company implement it. Highlights:
Recent email security update. How to fix “We couldn’t process your email”